“It is the passion that is in a kiss that gives to it its sweetness; it is the affection in a kiss that sanctifies it.” Christian Nestell Bovee
Being a sensual woman doesn’t make me a dominatrix, stalking men to drag back to my lair. Nor does it mean that I’ll screw everything that moves or smiles at me. So give yourself a break if you’re wondering about the energy that you put out there. Being statuesque, beautiful, alluring, attentive and sensual…does not a sinner make! And unless you ARE a dominatrix stalking men, you have nothing to worry about. Really!!
The older I get, the more self conscious I feel, though. Overly aware of other peoples’ observations of me. As it turns out, their observations are good ones. I loved hearing from one woman…that I am stunning and statuesque. From another that I have a very strong presence with an energy that people envy. It especially has a different more healthy meaning when a woman tells me this vs. a man.
I would just like to make it clear that I choose to look at my own sensuality as holistic. Meaning, it is all of me not just one aspect of me. Most relate sensuality to sexuality. That’s not necessarily true. As much as I’d like to deny it, being or feeling sensual has impacted all areas of my life.
At the end of the day…I’m still me. Living with the power and pleasure of being a woman. Being true to myself gracefully. Drawing love and positive relationships into my life.
I love my divine feminine sensual energy!
Sensuality without love is a sin; love without sensuality is worse than a sin. ~ Jose Bergamin
“You are beautiful…when you let friends have their space, when you believe, when you laugh, or are moved to tears, when you let it just roll right off your back, or when you lose it from time to time, when you talk about your dreams, when you help a turtle across the road, when you try to do the right thing even when it comes out wrong, when you love.” ~ Anonymous
I am flirty, frisky, and fun. All adjectives that describe me. I am a wife, a mother, a friend, a lover. But most of all I am like no other!!
Love is calm and comfortable, if you have to manipulate someone into loving you, then it’s not love at all. The best kind of love is the kind that grows over time. Love that starts out smoldering with friendship and burst into a flame of love and respect. When their happiness means more to you then your own. When you show genuine interest in them as a person and hurt when they hurt. When you try to protect them by keeping a secret or watching their back. When hurting them hurts you more and last but not least when an earnest apology brings you closer.